Tuesday, June 5, 2012

Death and Dying



                It has been 9 days since my last post, and while I haven't had time to blog about my scripture readings I have kept reading and studying. Recently my grandmother passed away, dying peacefully in her sleep. Because of this the last 9 or 10 days have been a little hectic in organizing the funeral and pulling the family together. I noticed however, that once people around me started to hear the news that my grandmother passed away, people would either ask me if I was doing ok, or they would simply avoid talking to me for fear of not having the right words to say. Can I blame them? No.

                Death in itself is something that the world fears, and greatly due to the lack of understanding and information on the subject. After all we have very little scientific knowledge as to what happens to us when we die. Sure science can tell us that the body of flesh and bones that we inhabited during our life will start to decay and eventually become dust, just like every other organic life form on this planet. But is that the end of our life? If our body was the only life we had, then where does that life go, when people are in comas? Do we have spirits? These are questions that science has yet to answer. I think this is why so many people fear death. I personally do not fear death, sure I want to live a long and happy life, learn and grow here in this life... but I do believe in a life after this one. I think that death is associated too many times with sadness and heartache. Sure we will miss someone when they go, but the pain that we feel should never consume us, it should be replaced quickly with joy and happiness. This is where the knowledge comes into play. In my life I have lost many family members and friends to this scary subject known as death. An Elementary school friend, grandfather, 2 grandmothers and my father. I know the pain and sadness that comes, it is only natural... but like I have said... death is not the end.

                The Gospel of Jesus Christ can answer  many of the questions that we might have. Because Jesus died for us, we can break the bands of death. Since the beginning, God has had a plan for us (his children) so that we might come back to him one day. God created this world for us, and the best way to describe the world is a gigantic classroom; some struggle with their coursework and others flourish, but our loving Heavenly Father only assigns us with tasks that he knows we can complete. Once we are born into this world (classroom) we have our life period to learn and grow, we can make choices, but in the end we will have to live with the consequences of our actions.

                Prior to arrival in our earthly home, we were presented a plan.... known as the plan of salvation. We would be born and have no knowledge of what happened in the pre-earth life. It is like we have a fabric veil over our eyes. This is the difference between our physical and spiritual eyes. Some people are gifted with the ability to have a "thinner" veil than others and they occasionally see things or have promptings that seem to be super human... like psychics.

                Once our earth life is over, we are called back to our heavenly home by way of a physical death. Through Jesus Christ all men/women are saved from a "spiritual death" which would prevent us from ever seeing our Heavenly Parents.

                The Book of Mormon offers us with the most insight into what happens after death;
"Now, concerning the state of the soul between death and the resurrection- Behold, it has been made known unto me by an angel, that the spirits of all men, as soon as they are departed from this mortal body, yea, the spirits of all men, whether they be good or evil, are taken home to that God who gave them life. And then shall  it come to pass, that the spirits of those who are righteous are received into a state of happiness, which is called paradise, a state of rest, a state of peace, where they shall rest from all their troubles and from all care and sorrow. And then shall it come to pass, that the spirits of the wicked, yea, who are evil- for behold, they have no part no portion of the Spirit of the Lord; for behold, they chose evil works rather than good; therefore the spirit of the devil did enter into them and take possession of their house- and these shall be cast out into outer darkness; there shall be weeping, and wailing, and the gnashing of death, and this because of their own iniquity, being led captive by the will of the devil. Now this is the state of the souls of the wicked, yea, in the darkness, and a state of awful, fearful looking for the fiery indignation of the wrath of God upon them; thus they remain in this state, as well as the righteous in paradise, until the time of their resurrection" (Alma 40:11-14)

                So we learn that everyone (good or bad) will leave their body and go on to another place, in this case known as the "Spirit World" which is divided into two sections; Paradise and Prison. If you do good in this life you will be put in a place of relaxation and happiness and if you choose evil works in this life, you will have from the time you die, until the time of the resurrection to think about those things, which will cause you to tremble before the power of God in fear, just waiting for your punishment.

                "The soul shall be restored to the body, and the body to the soul; yea, and every limb and joint shall be restored to its body; yea, even a hair of the head shall not be lost; but all things shall be restored to their proper and perfect frame." (Alma 40:23)

                So if in this life someone was born with a birth defect or by accident lost a limb or was diseased... our body in the next life (after resurrection) will be perfect! Everything will be restored or given to us to make us perfect. I know that there is a life after death and that we must live our lives to the fullest so that we can enjoy our next life. If we waste our life, then we will waste our lives after death as well. We should always remember that it is sad when someone dies, but the sadness needs to be replaced quickly with joy and happiness for those with whom we have lost as they move on to the next life.



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