2 Samuel 13-14

2 Samuel 13-14

Scripture Thought (What I Learned):

Chapter 13: Ammon Rapes his Sister Tamar

                Absalom, the son of David had a sister named Tamar and his brother Amnon was in love with her. Amnon had a friend (who happened to be David's brother's son, or Amnon's cousin) who told him that if he loved her, then he should have her. So Jonadab (Amnon's cousin) tells Amnon to make himself sick and then ask David to have Tamar come unto him to take care of him and make him food.

                So David commands Tamar to come in unto Amnon and make him food. After she made him food, Amnon commands everyone in the room to leave, so that he can be alone with his sister. When his sister came to him to give him food, he grabs her and tells her she should "lie down with him", but Tamar fights and pleads for him to not do this, because this would be committing a great "folly" (a stupid idea or act). It says that she told him to not do it, but Amnon being stronger than her, was able to force her, that is what we call "RAPE".  After he is done raping her, he is filled with anger and commands that she leave. Tamar tells him that by telling her to leave and sending her away after he had raped her, was as bad if not worse than the act of raping her in the first place.

From this, we can learn about the Law of Chastity (The law of chastity is a moral code defined by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. According to the church, chastity means abstinence from sexual relations before marriage, and complete fidelity to one's husband or wife during marriage), President Ezra Taft Benson once said; 

                "There is no lasting happiness in immorality...  Just the opposite is true. There may be momentary pleasure... But quickly the relationship will sour. Guild and shame set in... Love begins to die. Bitterness, jealousy, anger and even hate begin to grow. All of these are the natural results of sin and transgression. On the other hand,  when we obey the Law of Chastity and keep ourselves morally clean, we will experience the blessings of increased love and peace, greater trust and respect for our marital partners, deeper commitment to each other, and, therefore a deep and significant sense of joy and happiness." ("The Law of Chastity," in Brigham Young University 1987-88 Devotional and Fireside Speeches [1988], 51).

                Tamar runs off crying and takes her robe of colors off (that was for virgins), she was ashamed and went to see her brother Absalom, who comforted her and gave her a place to rest from her pain. Absalom was upset and when King David found out, it said that he was "wroth" with anger.

                Absalom has Amnon killed under his hand and Absalom flees to Geshur to get away from everything, King David longs for his son Absalom and his comforted by the fact that Amnon is dead!

Chapter 14: Absalom Sees the King after Years

                Joab decides to try and reconcile the estranged relationship between Absalom King David. We learned from the last chapter that Absalom fled to a city of refuge and in previous books we learn that cities of refuge were actually designed for the innocent and not for the guilty. they were designed to help get away from someone (after accidental manslaughter) so the next of kin wouldn't try and take revenge.

                Three years has gone by and Joab decides it is time to reconcile with king David. So Joab has an elderly woman come in and talk with David about how she was in similar situation. She mentions that we are like water that is spilled on the ground that cannot be gathered up again. Essentially saying that the day of reconciling must be today, because once we die... there is no way to do it.

                Two more years go by and Absalom and King David are finally reconciled.